Will my libra man come back to me? How can I get him back?
So, I know I have been posting a lot on here lately but I am totally and utterly in love with my ex libra boyfriend and I am trying to behave myself so he will come back. We had a nasty fight, where I kicked him out and he agreed to leaving the apartment we shared together. I was getting depressed in the relationship because of his constant ogling at girls in front of my face and internet porn that I would have to come home to and he would do this while I was in the other room. The other thing is that he tended to ignore me whenever I was upset instead of trying to comfort me, making me think he didn’t care about how I felt and didn’t want to respect me. Anyway, ever since the break up I realized I have been too needy with him to the point that he couldn’t be himself anymore. A couple days after we broke up I emailed him obsessively and called him at work obsessively. Then I finally got it when he said “ok, I will always have love in my heart and you wanted to break this off too and I think right now we should have space and then we can become friends again.” So then I saw him yesterday (it hurts everytime I see him), and I tried to play the ok I’m fine without you game, and smiled, flirted, and was being cutsey to him. Dressed nice too. He seemed to fall into it and was asking me questions like, what have you been doing since I’ve been gone? Did you have a party at the apartment while I was gone? My phone was ringing and he quickly said are you going to answer that or do you want me to get that for you? He was finding ways to touch me, brush his arm against me and such, then when we hugged before he left, he hugged me for a long time. Then he said as he walked out the door that he will always have love for me and that he will never forget me. Then he asked that I never forget him either? And I replied I will never forget you. He then said ok well I’ll see you later??? I guess to resolve the issue with getting his name off the lease or because he still wants me in his life. How can I decipher what this libra man wants? Please give me your best advice as I have been crying and depressed ever since he left and please give me advice on how to get him back and if he is still interested?
Libra can never give a reason for anything; they know they are right from intuition, but they cannot tell how they know; and nothing excites or annoys them more than to require of them a reason for their decisions and actions. Is it right for you BF?
Libras are very susceptible to the psychological influence of other minds, who act mainly upon their principle of intelligence: they thus take on the mental conditions and nature of others, and feel and act like them.
In my point of view, your BF is reflecting his inner mental conflicts. Take it easy, ask what is happening is his life,talk about his life and he will be back.
Will my libra man come back? Does he still love me? How do I get him to come back and committ to me again?
So, I know I have been posting a lot on here lately but I am totally and utterly in love with my ex libra boyfriend and I am trying to behave myself so he will come back. We had a nasty fight, where I kicked him out and he agreed to leaving the apartment we shared together. I was getting depressed in the relationship because of his constant ogling at girls in front of my face and internet porn that I would have to come home to and he would do this while I was in the other room. The other thing is that he tended to ignore me whenever I was upset instead of trying to comfort me, making me think he didn’t care about how I felt and didn’t want to respect me. Anyway, ever since the break up I realized I have been too needy with him to the point that he couldn’t be himself anymore. A couple days after we broke up I emailed him obsessively and called him at work obsessively. Then I finally got it when he said “ok, I will always have love in my heart and you wanted to break this off too and I think right now we should have space and then we can become friends again.” So then I saw him yesterday (it hurts everytime I see him), and I tried to play the ok I’m fine without you game, and smiled, flirted, and was being cutsey to him. Dressed nice too. He seemed to fall into it and was asking me questions like, what have you been doing since I’ve been gone? Did you have a party at the apartment while I was gone? My phone was ringing and he quickly said are you going to answer that or do you want me to get that for you? He was finding ways to touch me, brush his arm against me and such, then when we hugged before he left, he hugged me for a long time. Then he said as he walked out the door that he will always have love for me and that he will never forget me. Then he asked that I never forget him either? And I replied I will never forget you. He then said ok well I’ll see you later??? I guess to resolve the issue with getting his name off the lease or because he still wants me in his life. How can I decipher what this libra man wants? Please give me your best advice as I have been crying and depressed ever since he left and please give me advice on how to get him back and if he is still interested?
how can i get my ex back?
My ex boyfriend and I went out for three months until he broke up with me. Since then we have been talking like buddies, there is no spark or flirting in our conversations. But I want to know how you guys got your exes back or what to do and what not to do in the process. His birthday is coming up, and i got him a gift, but what else can i do? By the way, we are in high school, i am a Libra, he is a Sagittarius.
Aquarius Ex still wants to be friends ( quick agree or disagree question 10 points )?
I thought Aquarius and Libra were a match made in heaven. Im dead wrong after my 15 Aquarius boyfriend left me for a Gemini in her 40′s he met on world of warcraft.
As Astrology states Aquarius will break up quite suddenly but wish to remain friends with their Ex.
I agreed to remain friends but how can I continue if he continues to talk about this Gemini Cougar?
I was doing SO well with getting over him and he just had to bring her up and its every time! Every time he brings her up I’m back to where I started: crying, trying to figure out what went wrong. Now our opposites are repelling. Why the _ _ _ _ ( fill in the blank ) would I want to hear about his NEW girlfriend? Why would you talk to your ex about your current girlfriend? Do you get where I’m coming from? Any Advice? ( 10 POINTS )
I’m an aquarius sun and my gemini ex has a leo rising/aries venus. As soon as he broke up with me he insisted we remain friends and it caused me a lot of pain and distress.
Believe me, you don’t need this crap. I think you need to distance yourself from him. The REAL reason he wants to remain your ‘friend’ is purely for ego and selfish reasons. His unsure if his done the right thing and wants to keep you around in case things turn sour with the cougar. Also he gets to keep tabs on you! Obviously he doesn’t care about your feelings if he is talking about her,rubbing salt into your wounds.
How can I avoid getting back together with my ex?
Okay so complicated situation…
I had a boyfriend for a year, he has a 3 year old I love very much.
We moved fast into the relationship, but fight alot. Were both Libra’s (if your into astrology) and we don’t have the same group of friends. He refuses to to hang out with me and my friends, and he always wants me to hang out with his friends.
We always end up doing his interests/hobbies and not mine, then I’m bitter and mean over it.
Yesterday we finally broke up after he was extremely rude to me in front of his friends (this is normal thing for him to do).
I love him and his son but can’t take the meanness anymore. How can I stop him from acting this way so we can get back together, or should I stay away and be single and how do I avoid falling into the on/off again routine with him?
Sorry about your situation, I know it’s rough to be in that position. I think you already know that he is not the guy for you. You can’t ‘stop’ anyone from being who they are. Remember this, and think about it when you are weak, and vulnerable to the ‘on again’. What it comes down to is this. You are not in love with him, you are in love with the person you want him to be. And he is NOT the person you want him to be. He just is who he is. And you know, after so many tries, that this is the truth.
Stay away. Work on yourself. Give yourself time to heal from this relationship. Don’t take his calls, don’t call him. If you want to move forward and find a guy that is a wonderful match for you, a good relationship, then any contact with your ex is detrimental to your future. Don’t settle or waste time on something you know is not right.
Maryann Williamson wrote an excellent book on this type of situation. It’s called “A Return to Love”. It might help you bunches.
Stay away from the ex altogether for now. There might be a time, way down the road, that you might be able to be friends. But subjecting yourself to him now just keeps you from finding someone you are wonderfully compatible with.
Good luck to you!
Will my libra man come back to me? How can I get him back?
So, I know I have been posting a lot on here lately but I am totally and utterly in love with my ex libra boyfriend and I am trying to behave myself so he will come back. We had a nasty fight, where I kicked him out and he agreed to leaving the apartment we shared together. I was getting depressed in the relationship because of his constant ogling at girls in front of my face and internet porn that I would have to come home to and he would do this while I was in the other room. The other thing is that he tended to ignore me whenever I was upset instead of trying to comfort me, making me think he didn’t care about how I felt and didn’t want to respect me. Anyway, ever since the break up I realized I have been too needy with him to the point that he couldn’t be himself anymore. A couple days after we broke up I emailed him obsessively and called him at work obsessively. Then I finally got it when he said “ok, I will always have love in my heart and you wanted to break this off too and I think right now we should have space and then we can become friends again.” So then I saw him yesterday (it hurts everytime I see him), and I tried to play the ok I’m fine without you game, and smiled, flirted, and was being cutsey to him. Dressed nice too. He seemed to fall into it and was asking me questions like, what have you been doing since I’ve been gone? Did you have a party at the apartment while I was gone? My phone was ringing and he quickly said are you going to answer that or do you want me to get that for you? He was finding ways to touch me, brush his arm against me and such, then when we hugged before he left, he hugged me for a long time. Then he said as he walked out the door that he will always have love for me and that he will never forget me. Then he asked that I never forget him either? And I replied I will never forget you. He then said ok well I’ll see you later??? I guess to resolve the issue with getting his name off the lease or because he still wants me in his life. How can I decipher what this libra man wants? Please give me your best advice as I have been crying and depressed ever since he left and please give me advice on how to get him back and if he is still interested?
Libra can never give a reason for anything; they know they are right from intuition, but they cannot tell how they know; and nothing excites or annoys them more than to require of them a reason for their decisions and actions. Is it right for you BF?
Libras are very susceptible to the psychological influence of other minds, who act mainly upon their principle of intelligence: they thus take on the mental conditions and nature of others, and feel and act like them.
In my point of view, your BF is reflecting his inner mental conflicts. Take it easy, ask what is happening is his life,talk about his life and he will be back.
Will my libra man come back? Does he still love me? How do I get him to come back and committ to me again?
So, I know I have been posting a lot on here lately but I am totally and utterly in love with my ex libra boyfriend and I am trying to behave myself so he will come back. We had a nasty fight, where I kicked him out and he agreed to leaving the apartment we shared together. I was getting depressed in the relationship because of his constant ogling at girls in front of my face and internet porn that I would have to come home to and he would do this while I was in the other room. The other thing is that he tended to ignore me whenever I was upset instead of trying to comfort me, making me think he didn’t care about how I felt and didn’t want to respect me. Anyway, ever since the break up I realized I have been too needy with him to the point that he couldn’t be himself anymore. A couple days after we broke up I emailed him obsessively and called him at work obsessively. Then I finally got it when he said “ok, I will always have love in my heart and you wanted to break this off too and I think right now we should have space and then we can become friends again.” So then I saw him yesterday (it hurts everytime I see him), and I tried to play the ok I’m fine without you game, and smiled, flirted, and was being cutsey to him. Dressed nice too. He seemed to fall into it and was asking me questions like, what have you been doing since I’ve been gone? Did you have a party at the apartment while I was gone? My phone was ringing and he quickly said are you going to answer that or do you want me to get that for you? He was finding ways to touch me, brush his arm against me and such, then when we hugged before he left, he hugged me for a long time. Then he said as he walked out the door that he will always have love for me and that he will never forget me. Then he asked that I never forget him either? And I replied I will never forget you. He then said ok well I’ll see you later??? I guess to resolve the issue with getting his name off the lease or because he still wants me in his life. How can I decipher what this libra man wants? Please give me your best advice as I have been crying and depressed ever since he left and please give me advice on how to get him back and if he is still interested?
how can i get my ex back?
My ex boyfriend and I went out for three months until he broke up with me. Since then we have been talking like buddies, there is no spark or flirting in our conversations. But I want to know how you guys got your exes back or what to do and what not to do in the process. His birthday is coming up, and i got him a gift, but what else can i do? By the way, we are in high school, i am a Libra, he is a Sagittarius.
Aquarius Ex still wants to be friends ( quick agree or disagree question 10 points )?
I thought Aquarius and Libra were a match made in heaven. Im dead wrong after my 15 Aquarius boyfriend left me for a Gemini in her 40′s he met on world of warcraft.
As Astrology states Aquarius will break up quite suddenly but wish to remain friends with their Ex.
I agreed to remain friends but how can I continue if he continues to talk about this Gemini Cougar?
I was doing SO well with getting over him and he just had to bring her up and its every time! Every time he brings her up I’m back to where I started: crying, trying to figure out what went wrong. Now our opposites are repelling. Why the _ _ _ _ ( fill in the blank ) would I want to hear about his NEW girlfriend? Why would you talk to your ex about your current girlfriend? Do you get where I’m coming from? Any Advice? ( 10 POINTS )
-Hopeless Romantic Libra
ME: Libra Sun, Pisces rising, Aquarius Moon
HE: Aquarius sun, Leo rising, Aries Moon
I’m an aquarius sun and my gemini ex has a leo rising/aries venus. As soon as he broke up with me he insisted we remain friends and it caused me a lot of pain and distress.
Believe me, you don’t need this crap. I think you need to distance yourself from him. The REAL reason he wants to remain your ‘friend’ is purely for ego and selfish reasons. His unsure if his done the right thing and wants to keep you around in case things turn sour with the cougar. Also he gets to keep tabs on you! Obviously he doesn’t care about your feelings if he is talking about her,rubbing salt into your wounds.
How can I avoid getting back together with my ex?
Okay so complicated situation…
I had a boyfriend for a year, he has a 3 year old I love very much.
We moved fast into the relationship, but fight alot. Were both Libra’s (if your into astrology) and we don’t have the same group of friends. He refuses to to hang out with me and my friends, and he always wants me to hang out with his friends.
We always end up doing his interests/hobbies and not mine, then I’m bitter and mean over it.
Yesterday we finally broke up after he was extremely rude to me in front of his friends (this is normal thing for him to do).
I love him and his son but can’t take the meanness anymore. How can I stop him from acting this way so we can get back together, or should I stay away and be single and how do I avoid falling into the on/off again routine with him?
If you can’t tell I’m very confused.
Sorry about your situation, I know it’s rough to be in that position. I think you already know that he is not the guy for you. You can’t ‘stop’ anyone from being who they are. Remember this, and think about it when you are weak, and vulnerable to the ‘on again’. What it comes down to is this. You are not in love with him, you are in love with the person you want him to be. And he is NOT the person you want him to be. He just is who he is. And you know, after so many tries, that this is the truth.
Stay away. Work on yourself. Give yourself time to heal from this relationship. Don’t take his calls, don’t call him. If you want to move forward and find a guy that is a wonderful match for you, a good relationship, then any contact with your ex is detrimental to your future. Don’t settle or waste time on something you know is not right.
Maryann Williamson wrote an excellent book on this type of situation. It’s called “A Return to Love”. It might help you bunches.
Stay away from the ex altogether for now. There might be a time, way down the road, that you might be able to be friends. But subjecting yourself to him now just keeps you from finding someone you are wonderfully compatible with.
Good luck to you!